He Who Angers You, OWNS YOU!

Im not sure if you guys know this about me, but I have very serious anger issues. I get aggravated TOO easily and I sometimes take it out on the people that have NOTHING to do with the reason I'm mad. Its a sad disease, but I'm trying to work past it and erase that part of me.



Its HARD, though because lately, I've been surrounded by people that want to see me FAIL. Like, seriously want to break me down, chew me up, spit me out, then throw me in acid. I am breaking out constantly. I have so much stress its trying to get out, so to speak. And Its sad really, because THESE PEOPLE ARE ANGERING ME, THEREFORE, OWNING ME.

Ask anyone I'm close too. I am so quick to argue, quick to curse a m********a OUT and even fight, If I have to. And the people this post is about make me want to do just that. I've never met a person that is ONLY for self, doesnt want anyone else to win and at the same time, HAVE NO IDEA WHAT THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT!

"Everybody can tell you how to do it, they never did it..." Jay-Z

The one that HAS and is STILL doing it is the one we'll call "my savior". I know this person is probably sick of talking to me about my frustration, but they want to see me succeed. Im currently in the stage where Im learning to control my anger and attitude, as well as not get defensive (which I didn't realize I did). Its hard, man. Trying to find that medium and "kill with kindness". It kills ME to kill someone with kindness, omg! Its not what Im used to. When someone pisses me off, I enjoy returning the favor.

But, that was the old me. Some people just cant help being who they are. Cant help being Satan's Seeds. And Its my mission in life to master the art of dealing with these type of people. I refuse to waste all my energy being angry at someone who will never learn!

Im a geuinely nice person. I cant play the "search and destroy" game. I fail at it. Im a firm believer in "whats right is right" and "whats wrong is wrong".

What helps me though is when I realize that they will never be anything more than what they are right now. Good things happen to good people and god DOESNT like ugly. What you think it really is, its not. They will never get the respect they think they deserve and that brings a develish smile across my face.

Im not gonna sit there and argue with a fool! If you're going to be great at something, be great. If the pat on the back gets you through the day and gives you affirmation, thats fine with me. I don't need that, because thats what Im supposed to do. Its my job to be great no matter how much praise I get, if I get any at all.

Being humble is an important part in life. No one wants to be the prick that nobody wants to work with....

Lets listen to some music that makes me happy:






(Jermaine has always been greasy lol)





I will not be broken. I a tough girl from Queens. My skin is too thick! Memorize that, beeyotches!

Yeezy~

CASHUS C.R.E.A.M New Song!

Wassup my lovely readers, I got some new shit from one of my homies, Cashus.

Sorry to say, this song comes after the passing of his grandfather. Take a listen:

CASHUS C.R.E.A.M- "Hard To Move On"

Where Are You Yeezy?!

I come to my Global Grind readers a sad woman. For a couple of days now, I have really been missing one of my favorite people in the WHOLE WORLD, Mr. Kanye West. We all know that he said he was going to be out of the spotlight for a while because of the whole "Taylor Swift" incident, but its not like she was winning the Nobel Peace Prize. It was a MTV Moon-man, for christ sakes!

We all remember that night. September 13, 2009...

Taylor Swift was up against Beyonce' for "Best Female Video" at the VMA's...although many thought Bey had it in the bag, young Taylor took home the award. Bey's Big brother Kanye wasn't feeling that- AT ALL. The combination of anger and Hennessy is what fueled my main man to hop on stage, take the mic from Taylor and say "Taylor, I'ma let you finish, but Beyonce' had the best video of ALL TIME", shrug and give her the mic back. That night, Twitter went crazy, people just 'couldn't believe' that happened and everyone was just so mad at Ye.

After the incident, Kanye publicly apologized to Taylor more than once, even appearing on Jay Leno's show:

And then decided to back out of the spotlight.

Fast forward to now. There have been a couple of Kanye sightings:

September 26th, 2009 at Common's concert:

In Paris...

...and in Rome with Amber in November

Although he has went into hiding, he is still the butt of many jokes. The most recent was on Jimmy Kimmel:

My question is: If Taylor is over it, why isnt everyone else? The quicker people move on, the quicker I can get my Yeezy back. 

While writing this, I was listening to Kanye on my ipod and came up with some reasons Kanye needs to come back:

Reason #1- Because his TRUE fans miss him. He just up and left us to deal with artists and producers that we never noticed before!

Reason #2- Im praying he's working on some DOPE music while he's gone, so I say he needs to come back because the music industry is missing the magic that he makes.

Reason #3- Although he doesn't need the help, Ye's big brother Hov is getting attacked by someone Ye AND Hov once considered family, Beanie Siegel and I feel like Kanye should definitely be mediating that nonsense. 

Reason #4- Who is out promoting the Air Yeezy's and the Louis Vuitton sneakers he has? I cant do all the work by myself! Lol..

Reason #5- Kid Cudi did 100,000+ his first week, and there was no celebration party with Ye gone. Lupe dropped a mixtape on Turkey day and nobody is going hard for it like I know Kanye would.

Reason #6- Its just not the same without him around! Point blank, period. 

So Kanye, take this as a plea from a LOYAL fan, someone who believes you are a GENIUS, and come back into the spotlight!

Signs off and sings Gucci's "The spotlight aint nothin without ya..."

Follow me on Twitter ~ @Kanyeezy

Beans and 50 on Power 105.1

I know y'all know whats going on with Beans and Hov. Here's the latest drama.



Why does it seem like everytime someone bumps heads with their label, they run to 50?

Ryan Leslie's "Transition"

I am the first person to admit when I have misjudged someone. Ryan Leslie is one of the people I misjudged. I knew dude was ill, but it wasnt until I went to his listening session and he explained his upcoming album, "Transition" to us and I saw clearer. I fell in love with his genius and I want to share it with you.

Transition

Im BACKKKKKKKKKKKKKK!

Did anybody miss me? I know I been playing myself, abandoning Kandyyams for Global Grind. I'm not gonna do it anymore. I PROMISE.

On a serious note- Can I tell yall what I've learned in the past 3 months?

First, I learned that this guy I was feeling REALLY WASNT INTO ME. He was actually the inspiration for a previous post I had done on that subject (this one). I just didnt understand how someone approached me and when I wanted to make plans it never went anywhere. Like wtf u shouldnt have brought it HERE, if you was gonna do that. Im too old to be playing around. Shit was crazy, I had to get outta that situation before it got out of hand and I started feeling more stupid. No hard feelings.

I also learned that blogging is not what I thought it was. When I made this blog, I had no idea where I was going with it. It started as an online journal and then I started putting up clips and pics, taking on the persona of a blogger. Sites like Necole Bitchie and Bossip make it look easy, but once you're on the inside and you see how stuff gets conjured up and passed around, you'd be like "whaaaaa"? Its a risky business, this blogging thing! You have to be careful not to build/break the wrong relationships or else it OVER.

Im learning more about myself, too. I learned that im progressing and that I rather stay in the house than to surround myself with people I feel aren't. Its like, how long can you be doing the same thing? I call it "going nowhere fast". I've been correcting my wrongs and working on myself and I amaze myself everyday. My thing is, how come you don't want to progress like Im doing? Life is crazy, I swear.

No way am I content in where I am in life BUT, im happier than I was 3 months ago. I've done alot since I decided to turn my writing hobby into something serious.

I think y'all should follow me.

Teyana Taylor Is HAWT...Love Her!

Peep my boo Teyana Taylor getting it poppin...if u had any doubts she choreographed for Beyonce', pay attention!



WORK IT BISH!

Kanye's 1st Performance Since His VMA Outburst

On Saturday (Sept 26), Common threw the second annual benefit concert for his Common Ground Foundation in Los Angeles. In the fan video below, Kanye West got an astounding reaction from fans:

Lamar Odom's Jumpoff Goes IN!!

As we all know, Khloe Kardashian and Laker player Lamar Odom are getting married after only a month of dating. Well, his jumpoff has ALOT to say about that:

"IN THE LAST FEW WEEKS, I HAVE BEEN WATCHING A CIRCUS UNFOLD. NOW THAT KHLOE KARDASHIAN HAS ANNOUNCED THE WEDDING, I CAN NO LONGER BE QUIET.
I HAVE BEEN WITH LAMAR FOR YEARS. YES WE F*CK. YES HE PAYS MY BILLS. YES…… I HAVE AN APARTMENT. YES HE HAS BOUGHT ME A CAR. YES I WAS WITH HIM EVEN WHEN HE WAS WITH HIS BABY MAMA. SOME PEOPLE CALL ME A JUMP OFF. I KNOW WE HAVE A CONNECTION. I HAVE NOT TALKED TO HIM IN A COUPLE OF WEEKS, BUT HE WILL BE BACK. HE ALWAYS COMES BACK.
I SEE THAT THE KARDASHIANS HAVE MANIPULATED THIS SITUATION, MADE THIS A FAIRYTALE.
LET ME TELL YOU THE TRUTH.
LAMAR ODOM IS A DOG. HE CANNOT BE FAITHFUL TO ONE WOMAN. PERIOD. HE WILL WAKE UP IN A COUPLE OF WEEKS AND WILL REALIZE HE HAS F*CKED HIMSELF. LAMAR IS UNSTABLE. LAMAR IS BIPOLAR. LAMAR HAS GIRLS IN EVERY CITY. KHLOE AND HER FAMILY MAY THINK THEY HAVE STRUCK GOLD – BUT WHEN HE TRAVELS DURING THE SEASON, HE WILL F*CK AROUND. HE HAS F*CKED HER FRIENDS BEFORE THEY EVEN MET. I KNOW MY SITUATION AND I DEAL WITH IT, BUT I AM NOT OKAY WITH THE KARDASHIANS PRETENDING HE IS SOMETHING HE IS NOT.
I DO NOT LIKE HIS BABY MAMA, LIZA. BUT I KNOW HE DID HER DIRTY. WHEN HIS SON PASSED AWAY, HE WASN’T WITH HER. HE WAS WITH ME. HE DOESN’T SPEND TIME WITH THE KIDS. DOES NOT PAY CHILD SUPPORT. OBVIOUSLY, HE HAS LOST HIS MIND BECAUSE HE DOES NOT CARE THAT THE KIDS ARE IN SHOCK. WILL NOT ATTEND THEIR OWN DAD’S WEDDING. HE IS RUINING HIS FAMILY AND HIS CHILDREN’S LIVES FOR THIS TRICK NAMED KHLOE. NBA AND NFL D*CK HAS RAN THROUGH THAT. SIX DEGREES OF KHLOE KARDASHIAN. LOOK AT THEIR GOLD DIGGING MOTHER. SHE WHORES OUT HER OWN CHILDREN. I HEAR FROM HIS PEOPLE THAT THERE IS NO PRENUP. WHAT AN IDIOT. I HOPE HE IS BROKE FROM THIS. BETTER BELIEVE I WILL MAKE SURE I CASH OUT BEFORE ALL OF IT IS GONE. HE DID SIGN A HUGE CONTRACT, AFTER ALL.
HIS FAMILY WILL HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM. HE IS TURNING HIS BACK ON HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS. PUT IT LIKE THIS, IF YOU ARE BROKE AND BLACK – YOU ARE NO LONGER IN HIS LIFE. TRUE LOVE MY @SS. TAKE NOTE HOW NO BLACK PEOPLE WILL BE THERE. MAYBE A SPRINKLE OF THE ACCEPTABLE ONES THAT KRIS APPROVES OF. "

source: Bossip

Music Mondays

I found some time to blog, yay! aww man, I missed 'Kandyyams'...

Alright, alright, enough of the mushy stuff. We're back to work!

Okay, so last night, I had the pleasure of being in attendance of musical talent. My homie Absolut' had a little listening party for his newly done "2 Oz. Mixtape" and I as well as others has the chance to sit and listen to every track from beginning to end.

I had already had a copy of his mixtape, so of course I have favorites, but last night, I found myself typing in my notepad on my Blackberry how many songs I TRULY liked. Now, this is my blog, so we already know MY opinion matters, but Im gonna let his music speak for itself. Enjoy! ♥

Absolut'- "I Love You"
Absolut'-"Set Me Free"

My New Favorite Song

New Music Downloads

Download/Listen: "Forever" Drake feat. Kanye, Lil Wayne, Eminem
Download/Listen: "Venus vs. Mars" Jay-Z

30sec Preview Of "Successful" Drake feat. Trey Songz

MTV Shows

Missing In Action

Hey guys, just wanted to let you know that I know the posting is scarce on "Kandyyams" for a little while, but its all in good faith. Im working on something bigger and hopefully, if it goes through, I can continue with both that and Kandyyams.

If you want to see what Im working on now, visit me here: Global Grind and you can always get to me through Twitter.

See yall in a minute =).

Random Video: Ed Lover Says "C'mon Son"

Ed Lover talks about whats going on today in todays media, things that make him say "come on, son"

Paula Abdul Not Leaving "American Idol"?

According to Perez Hilton, sources close to Ms. Paula say that the "former" judge is working to get back on the show.

"Don't count Paula out just yet," the source tells Perez Hilton.com and also says that talks are being held about having Paula return and trying to come to a deal that makes sense.

New Music: Yung Joc Feat. Chris Brown and Pleasure P

Yung Joc Feat. Chris Brown and Pleasure P "Choose Me"



After listening to this song a couple times, Im kinda feeling it. It has to grow on me. What do you guys think?

Fizz and Boog "Bounce"



As a former B2K (mostly J-Boog) fan, I had to show this song some love, BUT, I'm not too happy with it. The beat is "ok". Maybe some more radio play would help it for me...

Fabolous Stops By "Its On With Alexa Chung"

Fab stopped by MTV to talk about his album, old crushes, his spoof of Dame Dashes freak out , etc...

Beyonce on Extra

Random Act Of Kindness

Do you write poetry? Do you want to try writing poetry? This is the post for you!

CALLING ALL POETS! CALLING ALL POETS! Are you an up and coming poet? Have you ever been told you are a great writer? Have you ever wanted to get your work seen by other people? Have you ever wanted to be a published poet? WELL HERE IS YOUR CHANCE! Thanks to an idea sparked by the amazing and lovely @CompliAKAted (Kellie), I am starting Project Poetry 2009! This project focuses on the unknown writers of the world who have great talents for writing, but have not been presented the opportunity to show them off. Along with getting a book published, attempts will be made for planned events where poets come together and meet each other and share their works. So with that said, send in your BEST poems to projectpoetry09@ymail.com and the TOP 100 POEMS will be selected to be published in a book along with some of my own. YOU MAY SUBMIT MULTIPLE POEMS, AND MULTIPLE POEMS FROM YOU MAY BE SELECTED! Please send all emails as WORD ATTACHMENTS. Also, they should be in the format of Poem Title, Your Name, and then the poem itself. YOU WILL RECEIVE RECOGNITION FOR YOUR WORKS! I am not trying to steal your work in any way. If selected, you will receive an email once the book is printed so that you can be sent a free copy for your contributions. Again all emails should be sent to projectpoetry09@ymail.com along with any questions you may have. Tell your friends, tell your family!!

This blog post originated from MagicMan504

Chris Brown At Young Money's VA Beach Show

Chris Brown performs "Every Girl" with YM


Then, He Breaks Out Into A Little 'Bille Jean" Homage

Jay-Z Album Cover For "TBP3" and Track Listing

1. What We Talking About (Produced by Kanye West)
2. D.O.A. (Produced by No I.D.)
3. Weigh Me Down Feat. Kid Cudi (Produced by Kanye West)
4. Unforgiven (Produced by Kanye West, Additional Production: MGMT)
5. Run This Town Feat. Rihanna & Kanye West (Produced by Kanye West)
6. Empire State Of Mind Feat. Nas (Produced by Kanye West & No I.D.)
7. When It Comes To This (Produced by Timbaland)
8. Always Feat. Drake (Produced by Kanye West)
9. Scenes From The Past (Produced by No I.D., Co-produced by Kanye West)
10. Everyday A Star Is Born Feat. Mr. Hudson (Produced by Kanye West)
11. Already Home (Produced by Kanye West)
12. Forever Young Feat. Mr. Hudson (Produced by Kanye West)
13. Thank You (Produced by No I.D.)
Bonus Tracks:
14. Sound Of The 70s (Produced by Kanye West)
15. We Made History (Produced by Kanye West)

Jay's Blueprint 3 Available on 9/11/09

via: Jay-Z.com

Drake Updates On Twitter About His Incident

@drakkardnoir: All is well...on the bus laying down...getting surgery this week but I'm walking. Thank my whole YM family for the help!
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Drake Goes Down

At a show in Philly, Drake apparently hurt himself (again).

Eminem Disses Mariah Carey and Nick Cannon (Finallyyyy)

I have been WAITING for this to happen! =)

Kanye West & Amber Rose vs. Chris Brown and Rihanna

Over the weekend, Kanye West and Amber Rose did some shopping together at Jeffreys in NYC and then hit the town for some partying at M2.

At the same time this was going on, Rihanna was photographed at Cipriani in NYC after catching Katy Perry in concert. Meanwhile, I'm hearing Chris Brown was spotted sitting outside the restaurant in a car, talking on his phone (according to TMZ). Chris and Rihanna are also staying at the same hotel. Coincedence? Possibly. Reunion? I hope not.

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Pics From My Trip (Will be Updated Everyday)

Welcome to Compton!

On Compton Blvd

Compton blvd again (I think, idk its blurry lol)

Grape St in Compton

Inglewood ave

Kids at the beach bathing in sand smfh

Me and my mikey

The Staples Center, home of my favorite basketball team =)

I've been in L.A(forgive my absence on the blogging tip). These are pictures I took with my phone, some aren't that great, but I decided to share it with you guys anyway, so enjoy :). Some were taken with a regular digital camera. I'll be back on the second.

Btw- my birthday is on Friday!!! July 31, 2009 I will be 23 years old! Yay Kandy!
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Meet "Dirty Money"

The group consists of Dawn Richard, Sean Combs (Diddy) and Kalena (who I think looks like Estelle lol).

Gloria Velez Talks Tough

I know I said I wasn't going to post anything else about Tila Tequila (since our little disagreement), But, this video is the exception.

Via Angela Yee from Shade 45 radio, Gloria Velez claims her on again , off again boo Shawn Merriman told her he wanted a family, and they were waiting to see if she was pregnant, he went to Puff's recent all white party and was 'doing his thing acting like he was single'.

She was asked what that “thing” was that he was doing she stated, “I believe he was f*cking for sure.” Then goes on to say his partner was a “4’11 midget myspace ho non-talented bitch,” and then explains their twitter beef with Tila Tequila (the girl she was talking about).

Awww shiiiiiit!



After watching this video, I took a trip over to Tila's Twitter page and this is what I saw:

"@angelayee Girl that Whoria Valez be frontin with her one-sided story. She need to grow up and stop makin lies. Shes makin herslelf pathetic"

Dun, dun, dun...

New Music From The Roc Nation

This song premiered on Hot 97 at 9:11am this morning.
Here it is for your enjoyment.
Jay-Z feat. Rihanna and Kanye West "Run This Town"

Alfamega's Letter To T.I

Browsing on Global grind, I saw an article titled "Open Letter To TIP From Alfamega". Given what I know about Alfamega and his "snitch" label, I immediately opened the site and this is what I saw:

"Dear TIP,
Hopefully, this letter will find you in the very best of spirits. With that being
said, let’s get straight to the point. You once said, “… Ay, I don’t talk behind a nigga back I say it in his face.” Well, consider this letter as me showing you my face...

The letter gets more interesting, but you can click here to continue reading.

Nas Ordered To PAY UP!

According to TMZ, Nas was ordered by a judge to pay ex-wife Kelis $55,000 a month in combined spousal and child support -- plus the mortgage on their L.A. residence.

Not only that- he was ordered to pay for the baby nurse, prenatal expenses and medical insurance AND the fee for Kelis' lawyer to the tune of $35,000

If not being able to be in the room while your son was being born wasnt hard enough, THIS HAS GOT TO HURT.

Solange Cuts It All Off

I woke up this morning to a bunch of Tweets and emails about Solange Knowles' haircut. She has decided to cut it all off. Now, she's not bald, her hair is cut real low (something like Amber Rose's haircut).

Me, personally, I am ALL FOR this new look of hers. She kind of reminds me of my aunts. They have the exact same haircuts and it looks good on them, as well.

Solange is one of the most unique celebs out there. She gets 5 stars from me for this new do'.
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Update- Solange speaks out on Twitter:

"listen. if. i. wanted. to. make. a. statement. i. would. have. twitpic'd. photo shoot. ect. i. was. simply. taking. my. son. to. school.

stupid. paps. took. pic. ive. had. my. hair. cut. like. this. for. two. weeks. i. was. NOT. inspired. by anyone. but. my. self.

i. have. done. this. twice. in. my. life. i. was 16. i was 18. did. not care about your opinion. then. dont. care. now.

dont. need. your. attention. or. your. co-sign. i am #3. trending topic. before. IRAN. &. some of you cant even locate it on a map. its sad.

dont. want. a. edge. up. or a perm. because. im not trying. to make this "a style" or a statement.

i. just. wanted. to. be. free. from. the. bondage. that. black. women sometimes. put. on. themselves. with. hair.

this. phase. of. my. life. i. want to spend . the time. the energy. and the money. on something else. not in the hair salon.

im. not. mad. at . all of you. that have made your opinions known. and have sent negative. energy. my way. i expected this of you.

you. have. the right to have. an opinion.

so. do. i.

ONLY reason i responded to this i have is because i was disappointed to see my name more talked about then #iranelection

we. gotta. do. better. people."

I know y'all heard that!

Heres a pic of Solange when she was pregnant. She obviously, she had this haircut before, people.

Noreaga feat. Kid Cudi "Floatin' In The Sky"

Noreaga and Kid Cudi collabo'd unexpectedly....Im a huge fan of Cudi, so I decided to throw it up, but Im not to into the song...Nore, as always is a little off beat on it, but I know there are some Nore fans out there. So, enjoy.

Noreaga Feat. Kid Cudi- Floatin' In The Sky

Amber Rose on Shade 45 Talking Dirty

Jay finally breaks his silence on the Chris Brown rumors and calls The Game a "groupie"

During an interview with Tim Westwood, Jay-Z denies stopping Chris from performing at the BET awards and talks about The Game (who he calls "groupie")

Chris Being Stopped From Performing: "“First let me categorically deny that, that’s not even my style. If I have a problem with Chris brown, I have a problem with Chris Brown. I haven’t said anything…live or behind the scenes. I don’t agree with what he did and that’s it…But as far as not letting him perform on BET, that’s ridiculous, that’s stupid and that’s a sucker move. I wouldn’t do it. And people commenting on rumors, that’s a sucker move.”

On The Game: “Tell me exactly what I said….(Tim: you mentioned his name, Jim Jones’ name, Dame Dash’s name…) I said I’m not talking about, this, this. I’m not…Is that a diss? ‘Oh, you hurt my feelings.’ Tell groupie to get over it…If that’s a diss, then wear that. Tell groupie to get over it.”

Be on the look out for Jay's upcoming single "Run The Town" which will feature Kanye West and Rihanna.

source: MissInfo

New Music: Fabolous- Throw it In The Back (Rmx) Ft. Drake and Neyo's "Your Girl Is A Ho"

Download Link 4 "Throw It In The Bag" Remix



Download link 4 "Your Girl Is A Ho"

Chris Brown Apologizes For Assault

Kandy's Opinion: Im glad he reached out and apologized for the situation. Again, we dont really know what went on that night, so we cant judge. Sure, he was reading off of cue cards, but I feel those words came from him. Rihanna hasnt spoken out on the sitation at all, and I feel like she's playing the victim. We've all heard that Rihanna was slick at the mouth and would even hit him on occasions, so why arent we ganging up on her? I feel bad for him and her, but the apology wasnt for us, it was for Rihanna. Now, he can move on.

Sidenote- I cant wait to hear what really happened that night.

Joe Budden Apologizes To Method Man

Kid Cudi, Kanye, Common and Lady Gaga "Make Her Say"

"10 Signs That She Might Not Be In2 U"

To keep in tradition with my "10 Signs..." Im gonna post "10 Signs That She Might Not Be In2 U"...

Me being a woman, yes, there have been times that a man has tried to bag me, (or whatever you kids are calling it nowadays lol)and I wasn't really into him. Me, I'm not a big fan of rejection, so I try not to flat out reject someone else (unless they deserve it). These are 10 signs I can think of off the top of my head that just might save guys some $ and heartache:

#10- You've asked the girl for her number, she gives it to you with no problem and when you call it, its the number to a chinese restaurant

#9- You ask for her number and she says she'll take yours

#8- You ask her what she's doing for the day and she says "babysitting". She's really out with another dude

#7- If you and her have been talking for a minute, but she wont have sex with you

#6- You find out shes feeling one of your friends after you already established you was feeling her hardbody

#5- You call her and someone else is always answering her phone saying "shes not here" or "shes in another state and left her phone here"

#4- She tells you shes doing one thing, but is twittering what shes REALLY doing (i.e at the movies, at a party, at the beach)

#3- She asks you to buy her material things, promises to chill with you after, but all of a sudden has an excuse as to why you have to drop her (and her new shit) back home

#2- Her friends see you, or are around you and have inside jokes, making you feel uncomfortable. She told them you were just "some dude", thats why

#1- She tells you "I think we should take it slow and see where it goes"...thats code for she doesnt want to be with you