This entry comes to you after hours of procrastination, some proof-reading and just plain ol' aggrivation.
I'm the type of person who likes to say what I mean and mean what I say. I don't like having to figure a person out. I don't feel I should have to. Its 2009, for christ sakes! Yes, this blog involves a guy, yes, I'm kinda digging him and NO, I can't figure him out. After attempting to get him, It hit me:
"Maybe He's Just Not That Into Me."
But then, I start thinking back. He was the one who came to me with it. He got our mutual friend to get in touch with me and we started talking everyday after that. No, not talking, TEXTING.
As I'm thinking about this, all the signs are popping up in my head. They've been there the whole time and all of a sudden, they are as clear as day! Not all 10 signs refer to my situation, but most of them do. Maybe they refer to you, as well.
Signs He Might Not Be Into You:
#10-If you and him are out and you happen to run into his parents, whom he introduces you to them as his "friend".
#9- He tells you he "just got out of a long relationship and he wants to take things slow". That means he's newly single and he is f****n every female he's coming in contact with.
#8- He texts you, because he "doesn't really talk on the phone". That's code for "I rather use my minutes talking to some1 else."
#7- You live pretty close to each other, but he's not making an effort to see you, or ask you to come see him.
#6- You tell your friends about him, but his friends have no idea who you are.
#5- He added you on MySpace and Facebook, but still hasn't changed his status to "in a relationship".
#4- He calls you "sexy" a lot, making you blush (all through text, mind you).
#3- You ask him what he's doing tomorrow and the answer is always something stupid like, "cleaning" or any other activity that he knows you don't want to be apart of.
#2- You don't hear from him in a couple days and when he finally hits you up, its not about how much he missed you. Its because he needs a ride somewhere.
#1- He tells you he's going to call you and your phone never riings. And on top of that, has a reason (excuse) why he didn't call you.
After reading this entry over and over, I'm thinking "what the hell am I wasting my time for"? I'm not in love with him, I only like him. And that's even in question after all of this....
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u know i gotta respond to this right? haha... gotta rep for the men
ReplyDelete10. some parents still think of their sons as little boys
9. not every female....
8. that long pause be makin us fall asleep
7. that ones tough cuz if u live by me im checkin up on you
6. dudes be hatin, only the closest know
5. damn thats playa status
4. we are shy since textin came out. lol's feel better on text than getting laughed at in the face haha...
3. you cant ask all the time....
2. thats f'd up
1. see what had happened was
good points though kandy. you should put one up so dudes know yall aint feelin us... really doe
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